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Alice at one month

by Clare Mansell
Alice at one month

It’s amazing how much you forget about the first few weeks with a baby. It’s been more than four years since Theo was a newborn and everything about that time is a bit fuzzy. It was only when I was trying to recall the details of things like how quickly he slept through the night, that I realised I had recorded some of that in monthly updates on this blog. It probably didn’t make great reading for anyone other than me, but it captured something that would otherwise have been lost and I’m particularly grateful of that now.

baby one month photo

As we did with Theo we have been following Gina Ford’s routine with Alice. Four years ago I had two copies of the book, a 1999 edition and a 2011 one, now I only have the latter and going back to it I have a sneaky suspicion that there are subtle differences in what she advises between the two editions, so I’ve tracked down an old copy of the book on eBay to compare the two and it will be interesting to see if I’m right when it arrives later in the week.

Theo was sleeping through the night for 8 hour stretches by 5 weeks, but Alice has been slower and it may be partly because we’ve done things differently with her. In our old bedroom in Scotland there was no room for a cot, so after Theo grew out of his crib (which happened alarmingly quickly) we put him in his own room. Now we have a bigger bedroom, we’ve kept Alice with us for longer, but it’s not without its downsides. I’m a light sleeper and her snuffling noises wake me several times a night. It’s also makes it hard for me to go go to bed early and let Jim do the late feed when we are both in the same room, so yesterday we took the leap and moved her into the nursery. We are using an Angelcare movement monitor which helps me feel a bit more relaxed about her being on her own and the move has paid off already as I managed (a much needed) 5 hours of solid uninterrupted sleep last night.


Alice is being bottle fed and currently takes 120ml six times a day and 150ml at 10pm and at the night feed. One of things I am convinced is different in the new version of Gina Ford is the number of daytime feeds. A couple of them are very close together and I’m sure we were doing less with Theo.

The one month milestone has seen some notable changes in Alice’s alertness levels. She is very interested in her big brother and enjoys looking out of the window or watching Cbeebies when Theo has it on. In the last few days she has also started smiling and attempting to laugh. Suddenly we can actually see her personality starting to shine through and it makes a real difference!

Having settled on her name and registered her birth a week ago, on Friday we went back to registrar for a second time to correct an error on the certificate. When we registered her the week before, we’d been so focused on checking the spelling of everyone’s names that we missed an error on her place of birth. The system automatically defaults to say the local hospital, but of course she was born at home. Now she has a birth certificate with a footnote, but at least it will give future family tree researchers something interesting to look at!

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Em @ snowingindoors November 30, 2015 - 11:16 am

She really is so gorgeous! When Ez was born I realised I couldn’t remember how often I fed Annie, I had to start over and find a new routine, which I hadn’t anticipated!
Give her a squeeze from me xx

isisjem - Jan November 30, 2015 - 11:51 am

A month already? My Mum would say what her own mother told her regarding feeding: All babies are different so feed as they require. My brother was a guzzler. He fed quickly and wanted big quantities. I on the other hand was a slow feeder. Mum said if she’d done it by the book/advice of the time she’d have spent all day feeding me – by the time I’d managed one bottle it was close to me being due for the next feed. My brother on the other hand would probably have died of starvation!

Dawn & Bean November 30, 2015 - 3:38 pm

Aw, lovely pictures. Sounds like you’re doing great hon. Keep up the good work xx

Amber December 4, 2015 - 3:12 pm

Ohhh, Clare, she is just SO scrumptious and making me feel VERY broody for a baby in my arms RIGHT NOW. Gorgeous pictures, as always.


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